Yesterday right after I posted for the first time on my blog.
I got excited
You know as we all do right before doing something Exciting ..
So I couldn’t sleep and kept thinking on what will be my next post all about lol
I kept asking myself will I continue writing and posting on my blog or is it just another one of the so called “ spree of the moment” 🙂
until something else captures my attention and i move on to another spree loool
You all know what I’m talking about
Most of us do it.
Call me crazy lol
I don’t care
Back to our topic
Finally after a considerable amount of thinking I decided to write about….
[ Drums rolling sound effects ] 🎵🎶🎶🎶 lol
LOW SELF ESTEEM
Why Low Self Esteem???
Well Low Self Esteem is a disease that I faced at a point of my life without the knowledge of the people around me.
If I describe it I would say it’s like a cancerous disease that will eat you up silently from the inside out…
Until it drains you..
And without having a good support system around
believe me you will not be able to overcome it
You will keep blaming yourself silently and if you are a good in acting you will put up a good act and fake it around your family
Simply to hide it out
To save yourself an embarrassment
I went through the LOW Self Esteem stage at some point of my life…
And I overcome it by grace of God and the help of a friend …
I won’t say who but she knows her self xoxox (Thank-you )
To describe it
Low Self Esteem is a thinking disorder in which an individual views him/herself as inadequate or incompetent.
Once formed, this negative view permeates every thought, producing faulty assumptions and ongoing self defeating behavior.
So before you start and say what the hell are you talking about
And before you ask me are you a psychologist
No I’m not …
But it’s something I lived and I can relate to the above definition
And to add on it
Low Self Esteem i’ts a state of mind that as individuals we put ourselves in
Some people overcome it , others struggle to overcome it.
The solution is simple
In my opinion and am not a specialist
I understood the following
People have their own thought process
And formulate their own opinions about you
Every one will judge you
It a human nature
we all do it unintentionally or maybe intentinally
people judge peoplE
till they die 🙂
Some people will love you , others won’t
You will have friends , you will have enemies.
So whatever you do
Don’t lose yourself
Don’t lose your self Esteem
You are who you are
And keep rocking.
At least that’s what I learned.
رضا الناس غاية لا تدرك
My Love ,
27th July 2017