Self Esteem

Self Esteem.

Yesterday right after I posted for the first time on my blog.

I got excited

You know as we all  do right before doing something Exciting ..

So I couldn’t sleep and kept thinking on what will be my next post all about lol

I kept asking myself will I continue writing and posting on my blog or is it just another one of the so called “ spree of the moment” 🙂

I mean…

until something else captures my attention and i move on to another spree  loool

You all know what I’m talking about

Most of us do it.

Call me crazy lol

I don’t care

 

Any how…

Back to our topic

Finally after a considerable amount of thinking I decided to write about….

[ Drums rolling sound effects ] 🎵🎶🎶🎶 lol

LOW SELF ESTEEM

Why Low Self Esteem???

Well Low Self Esteem is a disease that I faced at a point of my life without the knowledge of the people around me.

If I describe it I would say it’s like a cancerous disease that will eat you up silently from the inside out…

Until it drains you..

And without having a good support system around

believe me you will not be able to overcome it

You will keep blaming yourself silently and if you are a good in acting you will put up a good act and fake it around your family

Simply to hide it out

To save yourself an embarrassment

I went through the LOW Self Esteem stage at some point of  my life…

And I overcome it by grace of God and the help of a friend …

I won’t say who but she knows her self xoxox (Thank-you )

To describe it

Low Self Esteem is a thinking disorder in which an individual views him/herself as inadequate or incompetent.

Once formed, this negative view permeates every thought, producing faulty assumptions and ongoing self defeating behavior.

So before you start and say what the hell are you talking about

And before you ask me are you a psychologist

No I’m not …

But it’s something I lived and I can relate to the above definition

And to add on it

Low Self Esteem i’ts a state of mind that as individuals we put ourselves in

Some people overcome it , others struggle to overcome it.

The solution is simple

In my opinion and am not a specialist

I understood the following

People have their own thought process

And formulate their own opinions about you

Every one will judge you

It a human nature

we all do it unintentionally or maybe intentinally

people judge peoplE

till they die 🙂

Some people will love you , others won’t

You will have friends , you will have enemies.

So whatever  you do
Don’t lose yourself
Don’t lose your self Esteem
You are who you are
Keep Shining
And keep rocking.

Be Strong…

At least that’s what I learned.

رضا الناس غاية لا تدرك

My Love ,

Afaf
27th July 2017

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